(Re)Discovering Frida Kahlo

By Morgan Elyse.

Ten years ago, I didn’t even know who Frida Kahlo was. I’d seen the commercialized images of the unibrowed woman with a mustache printed on everything from buttons to shopping bags. Then one day I caught the Hollywood biographical drama, Frida (2002), on television, and I began to connect it with the images I’d seen in passing. After that, I became extremely interested in her work and her story.

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220px-FridaposterI find it quite disheartening that Kahlo was not previously introduced to me academically until I took an upper-level college Art History course, and even then she was only grazed over. I guess something positive can be said about Hollywood and its bringing to light certain stories (however inaccurate and overdramatized) that seem to be, for whatever reason, less noteworthy to the world of academia. It’s sort of sad and backwards, isn’t it?

 

 

 

 

Frida Kahlo painting

Women artists are and always have been, if not considered altogether incompetent as artists, underrepresented. So it can truly be valued that the Gellmans recognized Kahlo’s talent and cared so much for her work because hardly anyone was making it a point to collect women’s art in the early 20th century. If you know Kahlo’s work, you can also agree that it must have been collected, not simply out of an attempt to even the playing field or out of consideration for Diego Rivera’s wife, but out of sheer appreciation for the skill and beauty that was illustrated in her paintings.

 

aga-frida_kahlo8126kioy862Check back with the UMKC Women’s Center blog for more on Frida Kahlo this month. In the meantime, I highly recommend visiting the Frida Kahlo & Diego Rivera: Masterpieces of Modern Mexico exhibit at the Nelson-Atkins Museum. If you’ve never seen Kahlo’s work in person, it is quite the experience. Here’s a neat idea: If and when you go, keep in mind the ideals of feminism and gender equity and how that may or may not come across in her work and in the exhibit as a whole.

 

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Book Preview: Warrior Princess

By Jasmin D. Smith

A new book titled Warrior Princess, written by Kristin Beck and Anne Speckhard, and released this past weekend, really sparked my interest. This book focuses on the life of retired Navy Seal Chris Beck, starting from his childhood as a football playing, motorcycle riding, macho teenager who grew into a warrior serving our country for over twenty years. Chris’s impressive resume includes thirteen deployments, including seven combat deployments, and being awarded the Purple Heart and Bronze Star. His credentials made him a hero, a true warrior. However, underneath it all, this warrior forever longed to be a princess. During Chris’s youth, he always felt something was different about him: he thought he should have been born a girl.  After many years of hiding his true feelings, and retiring from the Navy Seals, Chris reveals his secret.  Not only does Chris express how he feels internally, he discusses how he plans to make his body to match his identity. Chris is undergoing sexual reassignment surgery and has begun wearing makeup, wigs, and women’s clothes. The book aims to reach out to the younger generation, to individuals who may be struggling with revealing their true identity. Beck and Speckhard give encouragement, compassion, and strength through Chris’ story, a boy turned woman, and the emotions of the transgender experience.  I believe this book will be an awesome read. Whether or not you relate specifically to being a transgender person, the idea of acceptance and finding your identity are basic concepts that all readers can relate to.

Photo from ABC News

Photo from ABC News

For more information, read Lee Ferran’s column for ABC News here.

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#KeepMeridaBrave

By Andrea.

Merida by Michelle Wright

Merida by Michelle Wright

Disney has received a lot of negative attention recently for their “makeover” of Merida from Pixar’s Brave. Her new look has thousands of fans outraged at the new princess appearance: her trademark curly red hair is now in long waves, her waist is slightly smaller, her face is covered in makeup, and her dress now features an off-the-shoulder collar. And…her bow was missing.

News of Disney’s new 2-D rendering of Merida spread across the internets like wildfire. Upset fans called out Disney artists for the new look, and even started a petition at Change.org to #keepMeridaBrave. The creators of popular website, A Mighty Girl, have even created a webpage dedicated to those who want to join the fight against Disney to leave Merida as she was, complete with sample telephone and email scripts and contact information for Disney. Brenda Chapman, writer and co-director of Brave, has given many interviews in recent weeks. She states that fan support for Merida has been overwhelming. Like Merida’s fans, Chapman is outraged that young women are receiving a message that their happiness ultimately resides within the princess fairy tale image: married to a handsome prince and living in a castle while wearing  a ball gown.

Below are several links for interviews and op-eds on the controversy, including a link to footage of Merida’s recent Walt Disney World coronation.

 

Washington Post: No Merida Makeover? Brave Director Brenda Chapman on Disney Princess and “Sexing Her Up”

Christian Science Monitor: Disney Misses the Point In Response to the Merida Petition

L.A. Times: Jon Stewart Slams Disney’s Makeover of Brave Heroine Merida

Moviefone: Disney Pulls Redesigned Princess Merida After Backlash

Huffington Post: Brenda Chapman, Brave Creator, Calls Merida’s Makeover “Atrocious” [UPDATE]

KQED Public Media Blog: Has Disney Backed Down On Merida Makeover

Inside the Magic: Merida Becomes 11th Disney Princess

Disney's princesses by Inside the Magic

Disney’s princesses by Inside the Magic

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Meet Our New Student Assistant: Jasmin Smith

JasminHello! My name is Jasmin D. Smith and I am the new undergraduate office/event student assistant! I am currently a senior here at the University of Missouri-Kansas City majoring in Psychology with a minor in Family Studies. I plan to graduate in the Spring of 2014 with a Bachelors of Arts. Post graduation, I anticipate working full-time in an office setting for a company or university that can utilize and enhance my skills. I am very excited to be joining the Women’s Center this semester! I believe this position will give me a chance to raise awareness on women’s issues and violence prevention and allow me to be more active on campus.

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KC Gay Pride Festival 2013

By Katelyn Bidondo.

Photo by sigmaration

Photo by sigmaration

The KC Gay Pride Festival kicks off on May 31 with the Westport Street Blast followed by Pride on the first of June, and this year’s festival will be held on Westport road between Main and Broadway. If you know Kansas City, you know this is a perfect spot for Pride! There are already amazing bars and restaurants in that area, imagine adding live DJ’s, vendors,  and thousands of gays = amazing! The theme for the festival this year is “Back to the Basics”. There are 3 “basics” for the theme, and they are:

  • Basic One: This year’s Festival will be held out in our community, right on Westport Road between Broadway and Main Streets.
  • Basic Two: All entertainment will feature local artists, from musical acts to DJs, who embrace and support our LGBTQIA community.
  • Basic Three: This will be a grassroots Pride. Anyone and everyone who wants to contribute are welcome to volunteer. All voices are to be heard.

So, what I gather from this is basically that we are getting back to our roots, truly supporting Kansas City’s LGBTQIA community, with local artists, vendors, and musicians, and doing all of this while including people from every walk of life. The Kansas City Diversity Coalition (KCDC) had this to say on Facebook, “KCDC is here to cater to everyone in our community, not just a select few. Let’s show them we are better and capable of more than nit picking and arguing within our own community. The time for a united KC, is now”. I couldn’t be more excited about this year’s event. This is my first ever Pride in Kansas City! So, let’s unite, get back to our roots, and have a blast at KC Gay Pride 2013!

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Swimsuit Season: The Nice Weather Rant

By Morgan Elyse.

Photo by frank servayge

Photo by Frank Servayge

The warm weather is officially here and I’m sure you’ve all seen the ads. Get ready for swimsuit season: with our new diet plan, with three simple exercises, five minutes a day, find the suit that’s right for your body type, hot off the runway looks, cleansing, toning, burning – ENOUGH!

Guess what, Internets and fashion magazines (like you matter anyway), it’s 100 degrees with the humidity of a sauna in Kansas City during the summer and people should be able to wear what makes them comfortable, dammit! We don’t have to cover up our stretch marks or cheesy thighs because it’s freaking hot! DEAL WITH IT!

Honestly, if someone is so shallow as to judge me for trying to avoid suffocation from the heat when they don’t even know me or how much effort I’ve put in over the last year and a half in becoming a healthier person, frankly, I hope their eyes DO burn when they’re staring at aaaallllllll of this!

I hope people reading this will join me in realizing how utterly pointless it is going to be to stress ourselves out as we stare our bare bodies down in those dressing room mirrors trying to find the swimwear that hides our “flaws” just right. You are not flawed. I am not flawed. We are all beautiful. Not just curvy women practice these terrible habits of self-hate, and not just women do it either.

Photo by Marcus Q

Photo by Marcus Q

Most of you reading this are educated people. You know better than to base your ideal body image on Hollywood, Vogue, or that one girl you saw walking on the Plaza who you thought was perfect but, in all actuality, probably has body image issues just like you and me or worse. We all come in different shapes and sizes! Yes, it’s cliché, but it surely bears repeating if we still have yet to grasp the concept! Are we just destined to eternally chastise ourselves for not being born into the body type that’s “in” during this era? You’re going to make me say it, aren’t you? MARILYN WAS A SIZE 14! Relax!

I want everyone, as they leave the last week of classes behind, and face the freedom of summer, to truly be free; I want you to be free from the worry of what everyone else thinks of YOUR body, free from wondering whether you might be bearing too much flab or, perhaps, the worry that you might be missing some flab in the “right” places. I want you to feel free to laugh and run and jump and play and dive – even if you jiggle funny while you’re doing it – free your mind, spirit, and body, and enjoy the warmth of the sun against your beautiful skin (with plenty of sunscreen slathered on to it, of course), however large or small a surface area that amounts to.

Love your body. I know probably as well as anyone that it’s a very hard thing to do, especially in the months ahead. But let’s all just make the pledge to keep the thought in our consciousness. If we are consistently making it an effort to love ourselves, this will become our new habit rather than the dirty looks and comments in the mirrors and negative thoughts we have about our appearances we’re accustomed to. Love your inside and your out; as long as you know you are living healthy (feeding your brain, eating right most of the time, and exercising at least a few times a week), there is no reason you shouldn’t be proud of everything that makes you who you are.

Photo by Eleventh Earl of Mar

Photo by Eleventh Earl of Mar

And hey, love others too! Spread the kindness and remember to use the right speech and thinking in regards to others’ appearances as well (you know we’re all guilty, especially when we’re not at peace with ourselves). Take a summer pledge to love every body – now get out there and bare yours!

Photo by Deb Roby

Photo by Deb Roby

 

To learn more about Body Image programming at UMKC, sponsored by Women’s Center and Counseling Center, visit us online. You can also find us on Facebook and Twitter.

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A Symbolic Barbie

By Ayomide Aruwajoye.

Photo by Richard NewtonAll through the semester, I kept looking at these two Barbie dolls that sat on the shelf in the Women’s Center. I always wondered what they were there for and what they symbolize. Both of the dolls were dressed like the “typical Barbie doll standards”: short dress, long hair, tall heels, small waist and big boobs! After a couple of weeks I forgot all about the Barbie dolls until I saw a picture of an innocent little girl playing with dolls and right next to her was an anorexic woman, who looked sick with lots of makeup on and little to no clothes on. The picture’s caption said, “Girls spend 10 years playing with Barbie dolls and the next 20 trying to become one!” After I saw that picture, I remembered the two Barbie dolls at the Women’s Center and decided that the Barbie dolls at the Women’s Center would have a different symbolic meaning than the “bad rep” that they carry.

 

Photo by rocorI have always heard about people not wanting their kids to play with Barbie dolls because of the message they send to kids. I’m guessing that message has to do with body image and intelligence since Barbie dolls are known for their super skinny beautiful bodies and ditsy dumbness. I played with dolls when I was little, but I guess as I got older I just didn’t care for them as much. This was not the case when it came to my cousin and many other girls. She loved her Barbie dolls, and as soon as she got too old to play with them, she started dressing like a Barbie and looking too old for her age. So then I started wondering why a kid’s toy would encourage you to grow up so fast. That’s the only explanation I could come up with, because why couldn’t Barbie be a young girl on her way to school or the park. Instead the Barbies that are placed in front of us on television are the ones with the short skirt, long hair and the boyfriend named Ken. Barbie is a bad role model.

So I started wondering if the Barbie dolls at the Women’s Center were also bad role models. So I decided I was going to give our Barbie dolls a new meaning. These dolls were not going to be the dolls that made girls, and even grown women, hate their bodies, or made females think they have to dumb themselves down for a man to like them. These Barbie dolls were going to actually be the opposite of that. The Barbie dolls at the Women’s Center should be an example of what it means to love yourself in spite of the flaws you might have, and being true to yourself, not acting dumber to attract someone. The Barbie dolls at the Women’s Center now represent women who are confident and respect themselves while demanding respect from others too. When you come into the Women’s Center, look at the dolls and realize you’re a Barbie, too – as you define “Barbie” for yourself.

Read past Barbie entries from Women’s Center bloggers:

Barbie’s Positive Influence

Barbie’s Not-So Positive Influence

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Game Night Get Away Wrap-Up

By Briana Ward.

152Our event, Game Night Getaway, was a blast. We definitely achieved our goal of giving students a chance to take their minds off finals. Final exam week is very stressful for students. We learned about why it is important to remain calm and relaxed while taking a final, and it can become overwhelming for many people.

 

196The event was full of fun! We gave out prizes that consisted of Women’s Center tumbler, t-shirts, whistles, coffee, and more. The prizes were given out for the winners of our bingo game. The biggest prize was given to our raffle ticket winner. There was great food to top off a fun event.

 

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166I enjoyed seeing everyone smiling and laughing, and getting away from the normal stresses of the week. While being able to be active and have fun at our event, this was a learning experience also: the students were able to talk about stress with Kate Melton from Student Health & Wellness.

 

 

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For more information on this and other Women’s Center events and programs, visit our website, “like” us on Facebook, and follow us on Twitter.

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Semester Reflection: Briana

By Briana Ward.

This semester was an amazing experience for me at the Women’s Center. Now it is coming to a close, and I would like to share some standout moments. I learned a lot, and was able to grow from participating in the events. The most special event to me was The Vagina Monologues. Although, I participated in a number of other events, like Operation Beautiful, National Equal Pay Day, Denim Day USA, and Take Back the Night, nothing topped being in the cast of The Vagina Monologues.

 

IMG_7850In the beginning, I was nervous because I never participated in an event such as that one. I did not know what to expect completely presenting myself to a crowd. Before I walked on to the stage, I was overwhelmed with emotions. I thought the crowd would be able to see it in my face, but they did not. Once I got on stage, my nervousness and emotions disappeared. I realized that I was surrounded by beautiful, wonderful, and warm women who genuinely cared about the empowerment of women and building their strength; making the word more comfortable to say and making VAGINA known and expressed instead of something that is JUST part of a woman’s body. Our vaginas describe US - it is not scary, it is not nasty to talk about, and it is who we are! I walked away with a lot leaving this event! The Vagina Monologues is just one amazing event that we sponsored during the Spring Semester.

 

156To end the semester off right, Ayo and I were given a chance create our own event. Game Night Getaway was a great success! I am excited about this because throughout the semester I helped with a lot of events but had never planned an event for the Women’s Center. Now I get to show everyone what I have learned and what I am capable of doing.

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The Vagina Monologues: A Reflection

By Ayomide Aruwajoye.

This semester is coming to a close, and the Women’s Center has only one more event left (learn more about Game Day Getaway here).

IMG_7850But looking back, my favorite event was The Vagina Monologues. This was the first event I worked since I started at the Woman’s Center, and it was also the most interesting to me. I think this was the most memorable event, too. I had people coming up to me months later asking me if we were hosting another Vagina Monologues event before the end of the year. I was disappointed, too, when I had to say “No” every time.

 

IMG_7883I think I was more shocked that no matter how much I tried to guess what this event was about, nothing could have prepared me for that night. That night was a combination of inspiring, serious, confusing, exciting, and funny moments. My favorite part was the “Angry Vagina” monologue. She talked about how tampons were uncomfortable, and vaginal examinations were very scary. I liked this one because it related to my life and how I feel; I was the angry vagina woman. I was also surprised to see some of my friends as speakers, too. This also inspired me to audition for The Vagina Monologues next year.

 

IMG_7613I think everybody took away something from The Vagina Monologues – especially at the end when the cast stood up and said who they were rising for. Some women said things like the reason they rise is because of their mothers, sisters, and victims of sexual assault. I think The Vagina Monologues is inspiring to women because not only can every woman relate to what the cast was saying but it even gave the men that showed up to the event an inside view. Next year I’m looking forward to The Vagina Monologues.

 

For more information on this and other Violence Prevention & Response Project events, visit our website, or “like” us on Facebook. Learn more about the Women’s Center by visiting our website, “like” us on Facebook, or follow us on Twitter.

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